Driving from my parent’s

Kamala DasEnglish20 lines1 public analyses
Original Poetry
Translation
Driving from my parent’s
Driving from my parent's
home to Cochin last Friday
home to Cochin last Friday
morning, I saw my mother,
morning, I saw my mother,
beside me,
beside me,
doze, open mouthed, her face
doze, open mouthed, her face
ashen like that
ashen like that
of a corpse and realised with
of a corpse and realised with
pain
pain
that she was as old as she
that she was as old as she
looked but soon
looked but soon
put that thought away, and
put that thought away, and
looked out at Young
looked out at Young
Trees sprinting, the merry children spilling
Trees sprinting, the merry children spilling
out of their homes, but after the airport’s
out of their homes, but after the airport’s
security check, standing a few yards
security check, standing a few yards
away, I looked again at her, wan, pale
away, I looked again at her, wan, pale
as a late winter’s moon and felt that old
as a late winter’s moon and felt that old
familiar ache, my childhood’s fear,
familiar ache, my childhood’s fear,
but all I said was, see you soon, Amma,
but all I said was, see you soon, Amma,
all I did was smile and smile and smile......
all I did was smile and smile and smile......
 

Explanation

The poem 'My Mother at Sixty-six' by Kamala Das captures a poignant moment of realization and reflection as the poet observes her aging mother during a car ride to Cochin. The poem begins with a vivid image of the poet's mother dozing with her mouth open, her face ashen and corpse-like, which evokes a painful awareness of her mother's frailty and mortality. This realization is momentarily set aside as the poet distracts herself by observing the lively world outside, symbolized by young trees and merry children. However, the inevitable confrontation with her mother's vulnerability returns when she sees her again at the airport, appearing wan and pale like a late winter's moon. This imagery underscores the poet's deep-seated fear of losing her mother, a fear rooted in childhood. Despite the emotional turmoil, the poet chooses to mask her feelings with a smile, offering a hopeful farewell. The poem beautifully encapsulates themes of aging, familial love, and the universal fear of separation, using vivid imagery and a reflective tone.

Word Dictionary9

WordIn EnglishPlain (English)Pron.
ashenpalevery pale, like ashesaash-en
corpsedead bodya body of a dead personkorps
realisedunderstoodbecame aware ofree-uh-lized
sprintingrunning fastmoving quicklysprint-ing
wanpalelooking sick or tiredwon
palelight in colorlacking colorpail
achepaina continuous paineik
familiarwell-knownsomething known from beforefuh-mil-yur
Ammamothera term for motheruhm-mah

Poet & Context

Era20th century

Kamala Surayya, also known as Kamala Das, was an Indian poet and author known for her work in both English and Malayalam. Her writing is celebrated for its originality and candid exploration of female sexuality. She was a prominent columnist and an iconoclast in her generation.

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WhenLate 20th century
WhyThe poem reflects Kamala Das's personal experiences and emotions regarding aging and the inevitable separation from loved ones. It captures the universal fear of losing a parent and the passage of time.
FormFree verse

Themes & More

AgingMortalityFamilySeparation
Simile: 'ashen like that of a corpse' compares the mother's face to a corpse.Imagery: Vivid descriptions of the mother's appearance and the surrounding environment.Metaphor: 'Trees sprinting' suggests the rapid passage of time.Repetition: 'smile and smile and smile' emphasizes the poet's attempt to mask her emotions.
Driving from my parent’s by Kamala Das — Poem, Translation & Meaning